-xIaOmay-

Sunday, July 30, 2006

Last sat, went fishing with Dearly at Tanah Merah Ferry Terminate.

Fishing was fun!! I luv it!!

Photos taken over there..

Beautiful?!

over there, u can see alot aeroplane flying past..

Dearly and fishes =D*

Preparing...

EEekkk!!

After fishing, was sick for 5 daes. T.T* Having high fever, cough and flu. But, couldnt stay at home to rest. Lots of projects to do. T.T*

Lucky got Dearly by my side. He accompany me to see doc, help me buy food and take care of me. I luv u most le. =D*

Exam exam exam coming soon~

Anyway, after this sem, there will be a 2MONTHS PLUS HOLIDAE!!!

MUST ENDURE!!

Postado Por: -maymay- Ã s 18:22

Thursday, July 13, 2006

Had a talk with Dearly yesterdae night.

Talking ish good.

Every problem solved.

Dearly, I luv u lots. =)*

Postado Por: -maymay- Ã s 09:28

Sunday, July 09, 2006

Recently received a email from my fren, Fenglin. I find this email very nice. wanna share with all my frens. Here goes...

EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love... Because it's happening TO YOU. People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU. Falling is love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage. At this point, you and or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, church, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this).

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND. SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the expression "the labor of love." Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work. Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage. Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can "make" love.

Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... Not just a feeling.

Haix.

Do you agree?

I agreed. It always happened. Haix.

Gers always wanna find true luv. But true luv cannot last. There are times true luv really break hearts.

I always trying very hard to make my relationship ever lasting. I strongly believe to maintain a relationship, you have to put 100 percent effort. Do things to surprise each other. Even little things will do. It will make the bond stronger each time. But, there will always problem occur.

What if u are the only one trying to make the relationship ever lasting while another dun?

Will the relationship last? Is there luv for each other or only you are the one luving him or her?

I always put my luv ones in the very first place. They stand a very important role in me.

I will try to give wadeva I can. Give wadeva they wan.

But will they try to give wadeva they can? Give wadeva I wan?

Yesh, there is someone. Mummy. She is the only one who really luv me alot. The one who I once broke her heart real hard. And seeing her hurting make me feel hurt too. Same thing, seeing me hurts, she will feel hurt too. Not only that, she will always give wadeva I wan. Thats true luv. I luv her too.

Another part, I luv my guy too. I luv him just lyk I luv mummy. But can he be lyk mummy who luv me that much too?

A 100 percent "yesh" if I ask that ques last time. Now, I dunno. I dunno why too. I find the luv u have for me different le. And thats why I feel insecure. Im hurt. And thats why I always feel so unhappie. And wanna throw temper and see if u still care.

Just promised u not to always be so unhappie. But can u think of me too? Not just to think of urself.

I really luv u hubby.

Postado Por: -maymay- Ã s 22:51

Monday, July 03, 2006

Been very busy the whole weekends. Hee =D*

Fri, supposely to go Tampines Mart to watch soccer with Dearly at night but when we reached there, too many people watching. So we bought some snacks and went home.

Sat, early in the morning went to give tuition. From 9am to 1pm.

After tutition, meet Dearly and head straight to Bugis. He wanna go Temple.

A super hot dae. Shop for about 4hrs, we decided to go swimming =p*

Went back home, took our stuff and headed to Tampines Swimming Complex!!

Was super beautiful after they had renovated.

Didnt really noe how to swim and that PIGGY dun save me when I struggling. He sae must let me learn. If he save me, I wont learn. Haixxx. Full of excuses?! Hahaha =p*

But... really enjoyed swimming with him. Heehee.

Swim till about 9pm, we went home for dinner.

At night, we played games. Poker cards, majiong...

Slept at abt 3am?! Hahaha..

Sundae, wake up at abt 12pm, bathe and went over to his granny place to visit her.

His granny was very friendly =D*

Tot she was sick and weak inside, she appear to be very strong.

Wishing her to get well soon =)*

Hmm, after visiting, it was abt 330pm. Me and Hubby went to Chinatown for desserts!!

A very famous store selling traditional desserts.

We ordered carrot cakes and mango desert. *yummy yummy*

I LUV the carrot cake!!

After dessert, we went around walk walk. Long time nv shop in Chinatown le.

Shop till about 7pm, we went back to Tampines Central. Bought some food and went home.

SUPER TIRING but was very happie to spend the whole weekends fully with Hubby =D*

I LUV U =D*

After bathing..

super clean and pinky =)

Postado Por: -maymay- Ã s 12:38

AbOut Me

*FOO MAYMAY
*18 yEaRs Old
*19 AprIl 1987
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FeelIngs

I gave u my anger,
u quickly ask for my forgiveness.
u said i was cute.
I totally asked myself not to listen to ur sweet-talkings.
but I can't.
I realli can't resist ur sweet-talkings.
dey realli melt my heart.
I lubb euu for u're my boy.
u lubb miie for i'm ur gurl.
let's lurb each other each day more and more.

u looked so cute and handsome.
the smile on ur face,
gave me a smile in my heart.
I felt so good to see u smile.
becos, u're my boy.
I will never let u go.
unless u dun lurb me anymore.
but if I realli haf to,
I will. becos I jus wanna see u smile.
I promised u tat u were never be replaced.
I love you.
yes I do.
I will be wif u until the end.
on the day i met you,
I noe tat we can be together.
and never leave each other..
I wanna marry you.
I truely lurb you.